Wednesday, July 3, 2013

~from a place so very far away~

A good Wednesday evening to you all from the "other" side of the Continental Divide here in Montrose, Colorado.  It's been a good day thus far, this day before Independence Day~the Fourth of July.  The haze and smoke from the forest fires still lingers over the San Juan Mountains and the Uncompahgre Range and every day we wait for the hope and chance for some much needed moisture, yet none falls.  The wind socks are blowing in the breeze, heading out straight to the south east.  The stately Cottonwood tree is providing the "white noise" of the day and for a while earlier, I just sat outside and listened to the sound in peace.  If I look hard enough, if my eyes and heart are open enough, I can find something just outside our own front door that is a treat to each of the senses.  Sometimes though, in my great hurry I miss out on the obvious things and I'm always glad for the times when I just slow down a bit and see the good that is right before my eyes.  It was not really different back home in Kansas you know~had the same problem there.  I'm getting better at this slowing down thing, really I think I am.  Just a show of hands here, how many of you are like me and haven't quite figured out this "slowing down thing"?  Hold them high while I count....yep, just as I thought~many of you are just like me.  Well at least we know we are in good company my friends :)

Tomorrow both Mike and I have the day off and we intend to do some special things on our very first Fourth of July holiday together.  Of course, there will be the traditional parade down Main Street here and a special event that is held every Thursday evening in Montrose called "Main in Motion".  When darkness falls upon the face of the earth here, we'll head to a good spot to watch the fireworks display.  Plenty to do and see along the Western Slopes on what will be the 237th birthday of our great nation.  I hope that you enjoy the holiday wherever it is that you might be.  

July 4th will also be the opening day of "The Wall That Heals", the travelling memorial to honour the dead of the Vietnam War.  The half-scale model, designed after the full-scale wall in Washington, D.C. will be on display in our city for the next several days and we intend to visit it at least once while it is here.  As kids growing up during the turbulent times of the 1970's, it means a lot to Mike and I both to get the chance to see it and to reflect upon the great sacrifice that those over 50,000 men and women gave.  For the record, I hate war with all of the destruction and loss of life that comes with it but I can't imagine anyone reading this feeling any differently.  For all of the veterans that have served in any capacity, during times of war or times of peace, I thank you for your service to our country.

On the occasion of my 56th birthday, way back in 2011, I wrote a blog post that I am reprinting below.  It meant a great deal to me to be able to share my thoughts and if you don't mind, I'd like to share them once again. You know, we kinda take for granted being able to live in freedom here in the United States.  I'm guilty of it and perhaps some of you reading this may feel the same.  May we always remember, may we never forget.  When they say "Freedom isn't free!", well they are not kidding.  Have a wonderful evening my friends

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

And now, for the rest of the story

Here it is the evening hours and my 56th birthday is about to come to a close.  It's been a wonderful day, filled with many blessings.  As the day ends, I've got one last story to tell.  When I finish it, I do hope you will understand......


This afternoon I made a trip to Laurel Cemetery just outside of my hometown of Haven, Ks.  It's a beautiful cemetery, quiet and serene, flanked by wheat fields in the summer time and a steady stream of Amish horses and buggies that pass by on the dirt road that runs by its entrance.  


I grew up learning how to walk the cemeteries, taught by two of the most wonderful women that I knew, my Mom and my Grandmother Brown.  I learned at a very early age that there was nothing to fear by going there and that a whole lot of history lessons could be learned by walking among the rows and reading the gravestones of people you knew and those you had never met.  I thank those two women in my life for showing me that you could find a lot of peace by visiting the hallowed ground that was the final resting place for so many people, all gone before us.


Today I had a purpose in going, a reason for finding some peace.  And I found "it" in the south eastern corner of Laurel Cemetery.  I was looking for the graves of two young men who died 44 years ago in the jungles of Vietnam.  Their names were Henry Fisher and Sergio Albert and they were from my hometown--Haven, Kansas.  






The Vietnam War had been raging on for several years when Sergio and Henry died, within 6 days of one another, in 1967.  I was only 11 years old but I still remember the shock the town felt to realize that two of its own young men were now a part of the casualty count of the Vietnam War.  


Vietnam had seemed so very far away from the pastoral setting of small-town life in Haven.  Oh yeah, we had read about it and you couldn't miss it on the evening news each night, but to lose two young men within such a short time of one another was so very devastating to their families as well as the entire town of Haven.  Their deaths left a lasting impact on me and whenever I visited Laurel Cemetery in the months and years ahead, I always found myself looking for their graves to stop and think about them for a moment.


Year after year, it seemed like the war just kept going on with no end in sight.  The draft had been reinstated and our family had said our good-byes to my older brother, Mike Scott, as he went off to Vietnam for a year in late 1967.  I can still remember the look in my folks' eyes as Mike's plane lifted off in Wichita that autumn afternoon.  They had to be thinking, would they ever see him again?  


By the time I had made it to high school in 1969, the effects of the war were seen everywhere in the U.S.  Anti-war protests were common place on college campuses as the dissent against being in Vietnam was rising.  Draft cards were burned and veterans coming back home again were often met with scorn from people who didn't understand why the United States was involved in the war.  It was such a confusing time for kids my age as we watched our country being torn apart by the effects of a war that seemed to have no end.....where could we find some peace?  The answer came in the form of a piece of jewelry...known at that time as a "P.O.W." bracelet.  


I remember sending off $1 for one to be sent to me from Colorado Springs.  I was a sophomore in high school the day that it arrived in the mail and when I put it on my left wrist, I vowed to keep it on until the person whose name was on my bracelet was accounted for.  I wore it faithfully for the next 3 years until finally it snapped into two pieces.  But I kept it in my jewelry box and refused to throw it away.  I am 56 years old now but I have never forgotten the name of my P.O.W. and today I decided it was high time for me to honor his memory.  His name was Lee Nordahl and although I never knew him, his life had a profound impact upon mine.


Lee Edward Nordahl was a 26-year old navy pilot from Choteau, Montana.  In December of 1965, Lee was the co-pilot for a reconnaissance mission over North Vietnam.  Shortly after take off, the plane he was in was shot down by enemy fire and both he and the pilot were considered M.I.A. because there was no proof that they had indeed died in the crash.  Years later, the remains of the pilot, Guy D. Johnson, were returned to the U.S.  Lee Nordahl's were never returned and no knowledge of his whereabouts were ever confirmed.  To this day, he is listed M.I.A.


Today I decided to honor the memory of the man on my bracelet, who, if he were still living today, would be 72 years old.  I remembered him today when I received a tattoo on my left leg, as shown below.....




Ok, I can read some of your minds from my dining room table and some of the thoughts are sounding like, "Peggy are you crazy?"  Well, friends, I've been told that before many times.  I've often said that if I ever did get a tattoo it would be when I was older (hey that fits today) and when I had a real purpose, a real meaning to any permanent marking on my body.  Today I feel that I do.  The initials L E N stand for his name, U S N is for his branch of service and the date is the official date of loss by the government.  The peace symbol, well that speaks for itself.  


I hope that people do ask me about it...I want to tell his story and to make people aware of a time so very long ago and so very far away called the "Vietnam War".  So many lives lost, so many people injured, so many people still suffering the effects today even years later.  May the generations of the future never forget what happened there and the price paid with so many American lives.  May you rest in peace, Lee Nordahl and all the others who gave their lives in the jungles of Vietnam.


"Greater love has no one than this, that he lays down his life for his friends."  John 15:13


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